For this installment of our weekly interview series, Love, Actually , about the reality of women's sex lives, we spoke with Vera a pseudonym , a married woman who unexpectedly got into swinging during a tenth-anniversary cruise. I came across a "clothing optional lifestyle takeover cruise. We assumed "lifestyle" meant BDSM. We figured we could still go, even though we didn't plan to participate.
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If you would have told me a year ago that I would one day watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I would have laughed in your face. Though my addiction had been curbed since meeting my husband, thanks to a combination of efforts buoyed by his support, would a salacious vacation reopen the wound? Why not a swingers resort? Weeks later, we arrived in Cancun in the rain.
My wife and I have started swinging, but I struggle to get an erection
This is a very difficult situation which I have more or less brought upon myself. It all started so simply and yet it has turned my life upside down. One night my wife and I were watching a programme which was dealing with the rise in couples swinging.
Swinging , sometimes called wife swapping , husband swapping or partner swapping , is sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in such activities with others as a recreational or social activity. People may choose a swinging lifestyle for a variety of reasons. Many cite an increased quality and quantity of sex.